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[50] Love Starts From Allah | Ayatollah Misbah-Yazdi | Farsi Sub English
How should one take a note of the blessings that are mentioned by Allah in the holy Qur\'an?
What does Allah say in the holy Qur\'an as regards to the gratefulness of mankind?
And how does...
How should one take a note of the blessings that are mentioned by Allah in the holy Qur\'an?
What does Allah say in the holy Qur\'an as regards to the gratefulness of mankind?
And how does the love for the selected creations of Allah lead us towards the love for Allah?
Yet, other than this, is there another way to know and love Allah?
What does the 4th divinely appointed Imam, Imam Sajjad (A) say regarding this concept?
Finally, what does it mean that \'Love Starts From Allah\'?
The late Ayatollah Misbah-Yazdi (R) provides us with a short, but profound lesson on the basics of loving Allah.
#Akhlaq #Love #Allah #Concepts #Beliefs #Salvation
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How should one take a note of the blessings that are mentioned by Allah in the holy Qur\'an?
What does Allah say in the holy Qur\'an as regards to the gratefulness of mankind?
And how does the love for the selected creations of Allah lead us towards the love for Allah?
Yet, other than this, is there another way to know and love Allah?
What does the 4th divinely appointed Imam, Imam Sajjad (A) say regarding this concept?
Finally, what does it mean that \'Love Starts From Allah\'?
The late Ayatollah Misbah-Yazdi (R) provides us with a short, but profound lesson on the basics of loving Allah.
#Akhlaq #Love #Allah #Concepts #Beliefs #Salvation
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UK starts drone attacks from home soil - English
The City of Lincoln in the north of England. Scenic. Suburban. And suddenly a hub for Britain\'s war on terror. This week the government announced that it\'s now conducting drone attacks on...
The City of Lincoln in the north of England. Scenic. Suburban. And suddenly a hub for Britain\'s war on terror. This week the government announced that it\'s now conducting drone attacks on Afghanistan from the base behind me - RAF Waddington - where 100 personnel are manning the hi-tech reaper drones carrying 500lb bombs and hellfire missiles. In response to the move, hundreds of anti-war demonstrators have marched through the city to the army site. Drone Expert Chris Coles agrees - that Britain is expanding its drone project - with the help of its friends. The government defends drones. It says they save lives. It will only admit to one civilian killing. But reality on the ground speaks differently.
UK insists its operations are only in Afghanistan - where British drones have flown about 45,000 hours and fired about 350 times.
Nargess Moballeghi, Press TV, London
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The City of Lincoln in the north of England. Scenic. Suburban. And suddenly a hub for Britain\'s war on terror. This week the government announced that it\'s now conducting drone attacks on Afghanistan from the base behind me - RAF Waddington - where 100 personnel are manning the hi-tech reaper drones carrying 500lb bombs and hellfire missiles. In response to the move, hundreds of anti-war demonstrators have marched through the city to the army site. Drone Expert Chris Coles agrees - that Britain is expanding its drone project - with the help of its friends. The government defends drones. It says they save lives. It will only admit to one civilian killing. But reality on the ground speaks differently.
UK insists its operations are only in Afghanistan - where British drones have flown about 45,000 hours and fired about 350 times.
Nargess Moballeghi, Press TV, London
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[09 July 13] LA workers demand fair share as economy starts to recover - English
California workers are protesting across the state to defend the middle class.
Workers have been holding demonstrations near the capital of Sacramento and in Los Angeles to rally the 99...
California workers are protesting across the state to defend the middle class.
Workers have been holding demonstrations near the capital of Sacramento and in Los Angeles to rally the 99 percenters. The demonstrations follow months of stalled negotiations with county and state departments.
Workers have not received a raise in more than 5 years. Despite this, workers have taken on additional duties and are working longer hours.
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California workers are protesting across the state to defend the middle class.
Workers have been holding demonstrations near the capital of Sacramento and in Los Angeles to rally the 99 percenters. The demonstrations follow months of stalled negotiations with county and state departments.
Workers have not received a raise in more than 5 years. Despite this, workers have taken on additional duties and are working longer hours.
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[20 Dec 2013] 2nd day of technical talks on Iran nuclear program starts in Geneva - English
Its the second day of a new round of technical talks between Iran and the permanent members of the U-N Security Council plus Germany in the Swiss city of Geneva.
Experts from the two sides...
Its the second day of a new round of technical talks between Iran and the permanent members of the U-N Security Council plus Germany in the Swiss city of Geneva.
Experts from the two sides began negotiations over Iran\\\\\\\'s nuclear program on Thursday. The talks follow four days of similar discussions in Vienna last week. Iran walked out of the last round after the U-S expanded its sanctions against Tehran. The added measures came as, under a landmark deal in Geneva last month, the West had promised not to slap new sanctions on Iran. Tehran says it\\\\\\\'s ready to pick up the talks after the E-U foreign policy chief, Catherine Ashton assured it that the P-five-plus-one countries, especially the U-S, would continue the negotiations in goodwill.
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Its the second day of a new round of technical talks between Iran and the permanent members of the U-N Security Council plus Germany in the Swiss city of Geneva.
Experts from the two sides began negotiations over Iran\\\\\\\'s nuclear program on Thursday. The talks follow four days of similar discussions in Vienna last week. Iran walked out of the last round after the U-S expanded its sanctions against Tehran. The added measures came as, under a landmark deal in Geneva last month, the West had promised not to slap new sanctions on Iran. Tehran says it\\\\\\\'s ready to pick up the talks after the E-U foreign policy chief, Catherine Ashton assured it that the P-five-plus-one countries, especially the U-S, would continue the negotiations in goodwill.
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Kids Cartoon - PINGU - Pingu the Chef - All Languages Other
Mother and Father go out for the day, leaving the children at home alone. Pingu puts a pan on the warm stove and Pinga brings him a cob of corn. Pingu puts the corn kernels into the pan and puts...
Mother and Father go out for the day, leaving the children at home alone. Pingu puts a pan on the warm stove and Pinga brings him a cob of corn. Pingu puts the corn kernels into the pan and puts the lid on, and they soon have a pan of popcorn. The both gobble down the popcorn until there are only a few pieces left. Pinga distracts Pingu, and gobbles down the last of the popcorn while Pingu isn\'t looking. He chases her into the adjacent bathroom, but notices her putting wood in the boiler, which then gives Pingu an idea. He goes to the cupboard, which is full of corn, and fills a big box with the corn kernels. He then loads all this corn into the boiler and puts on the lid. The corn starts popping, and soon there\'s a big pile of it. They wonder what to do with it, and then Pinga starts filling boxes with the popcorn while Pingu gets the sledge. Pingu loads the sledge and sets off round the neighbours to give it away. He gives away three of the boxes, one to the post office attendant, one to a mother with three babies, and one to a neighbour. He goes back and tries to give his last box to the mother with three children but she curtly refuses it; the babies have made a terrible mess in the igloo with the box they\'ve already had. He tries at the post office, but the attendant is full. Pinga then spots some empty boxes outside the post office, and they fill one of the boxes, put on the lid, and address and stamp it. They hand it in, and the postman delivers it to the neighbour, who is still struggling to eat what Pingu had brought him before. The postman leaves the box on the floor. It starts to rumble and expand, and then bursts scattering popcorn in a pile around (it is possible that making the popcorn with the boiler had this unfavourable side effect on the corn). The neighbour groans in displeasure. By now Pingu and Pinga are at home sharing a large plateful of popcorn. They realise that Mother and Father are soon due back, and rush to finish before they get home in time. When Mother and Father arrive the children are snuggled up in bed, pretending to be asleep. Mother pulls off the covers and greets them, not noticing how bloated they are, and then she and Father offer them the gifts they\'ve brought home for them - a bag of popcorn each for them, Pingu and Pinga refuse and quickly put the covers back over them, much to Mother and Father\'s puzzlement.
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Mother and Father go out for the day, leaving the children at home alone. Pingu puts a pan on the warm stove and Pinga brings him a cob of corn. Pingu puts the corn kernels into the pan and puts the lid on, and they soon have a pan of popcorn. The both gobble down the popcorn until there are only a few pieces left. Pinga distracts Pingu, and gobbles down the last of the popcorn while Pingu isn\'t looking. He chases her into the adjacent bathroom, but notices her putting wood in the boiler, which then gives Pingu an idea. He goes to the cupboard, which is full of corn, and fills a big box with the corn kernels. He then loads all this corn into the boiler and puts on the lid. The corn starts popping, and soon there\'s a big pile of it. They wonder what to do with it, and then Pinga starts filling boxes with the popcorn while Pingu gets the sledge. Pingu loads the sledge and sets off round the neighbours to give it away. He gives away three of the boxes, one to the post office attendant, one to a mother with three babies, and one to a neighbour. He goes back and tries to give his last box to the mother with three children but she curtly refuses it; the babies have made a terrible mess in the igloo with the box they\'ve already had. He tries at the post office, but the attendant is full. Pinga then spots some empty boxes outside the post office, and they fill one of the boxes, put on the lid, and address and stamp it. They hand it in, and the postman delivers it to the neighbour, who is still struggling to eat what Pingu had brought him before. The postman leaves the box on the floor. It starts to rumble and expand, and then bursts scattering popcorn in a pile around (it is possible that making the popcorn with the boiler had this unfavourable side effect on the corn). The neighbour groans in displeasure. By now Pingu and Pinga are at home sharing a large plateful of popcorn. They realise that Mother and Father are soon due back, and rush to finish before they get home in time. When Mother and Father arrive the children are snuggled up in bed, pretending to be asleep. Mother pulls off the covers and greets them, not noticing how bloated they are, and then she and Father offer them the gifts they\'ve brought home for them - a bag of popcorn each for them, Pingu and Pinga refuse and quickly put the covers back over them, much to Mother and Father\'s puzzlement.
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[Session 1] Becoming familiar with some of the sweet concepts of the Shabaniya Supplication | Agha Ali Reza Panahiyan Ű Farsi sub English
Becoming familiar with some of the sweet concepts of the Shaâbaniya Supplication
Session 1
In the name of God, the Beneficent, the Merciful. It is very good before using, reading, thinking or...
Becoming familiar with some of the sweet concepts of the Shaâbaniya Supplication
Session 1
In the name of God, the Beneficent, the Merciful. It is very good before using, reading, thinking or whispering a supplication to God, to become familiar with the supplicationsâ passage in detail, become aware of its meaning and refer to the expositions on it. In these short opportunities, I will try to briefly discuss some topics to help us become familiar with this supplication. We hope the Almighty God will give us success to get the most use from this supplication.
The âShaâbaniya Supplicationâ starts with sending salutations on the Holy Prophet (s) and his Pure Household (âa). According to many recommendations, which everyone has heard, and as has been mentioned in the traditions very much too, each prayer should start with salutations. This prayer has started with salutations too, like many other prayers, which have reached us. In the prayers that do not start with salutations, naturally we should send these salutations ourselves.
There are many reasons for this. I will only say one sentence about this and pass on it. It is as if when a person doesnât have the Household of the Prophetâs guardianship, their guardianship is not in his heart, and he doesnât remember these personages with honor, the Almighty God doesnât hear him, wonât answer his prayer and doesnât take this person into account. For whoever enters the Judgment Day, his/her ID is following Godâs Guardians. In this case too, whoever stands in Godâs presence should show his/her ID. This salutation is our identity card. If a person shows this identity card with love and devotion, says, âGod, see Iâm devoted to the Prophet and his Household,â hasnât just said the salutations negligently, and has repeated this salutation with fondness, the way will open for him to pray.
In the first phrase, the Commander of the Faithful, Ali (âa), uses three surprising words. This prayer starts without any introduction. âHear my prayer when I call You. Hear my voice when I call You. Pay attention to me when I whisper to You.â One of the wonders of this prayer is that it starts without any introduction. This prayer is the words of a person who canât tolerate anymore! Itâs as if he has come a far distance and only wants to moan. He knows that God is waiting to hear his words, but he wants to shout at times, whisper at times and pray at times. âHear my voice when I call you.â âNidaâ means calling with a loud voice. âPay attention to me when I whisper to You.â âNajwaâ means talking in a very low voice. And âDuâaâ is used for any kind of calling. Three consecutive words.
It is as if the Commander of the Faithful wants to cry out, âGod, I want to talk to You!â Heâs showing his insistence to whisper to God, cry out to Him and supplicate Him. Heâs not saying others things. He wants, calls and invites God. The next sentence shows this. âI have escaped to You and am standing between Your hands.â âI have escaped to Youâ means I have escaped and come to You. It gives the same feeling that those three words had. âHear my prayer. Hear my voice. Pay attention to me when I whisper to You.â Itâs as if a person has come running. âI am now standing between Your hands.â âBetween Your handsâ is a more beautiful and pleasing concept than standing in front of God. Itâs as if a little one has taken refuge with a great one and is in his power. This is much more beautiful. Those who are the smaller one before a greater one, and have felt the support of a kind, greater one, can understand this. âI am poor before You and I beseech You.â The Commander of the Faithful (âa) is only beseeching in this supplication. He is expressing this with different phrases.
He is beseeching in all of his words. These words are not meaningless words for the Commander of the Faithful. These words arise from the depth of his feelings. He wants to cry intensely with these words. We study, review and even think about these words. But, these words have become internalized for the Commander of the Faithful. The Imam is not reading these words from a prayer book. These words are the interpretation of the Imamâs moans.
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Becoming familiar with some of the sweet concepts of the Shaâbaniya Supplication
Session 1
In the name of God, the Beneficent, the Merciful. It is very good before using, reading, thinking or whispering a supplication to God, to become familiar with the supplicationsâ passage in detail, become aware of its meaning and refer to the expositions on it. In these short opportunities, I will try to briefly discuss some topics to help us become familiar with this supplication. We hope the Almighty God will give us success to get the most use from this supplication.
The âShaâbaniya Supplicationâ starts with sending salutations on the Holy Prophet (s) and his Pure Household (âa). According to many recommendations, which everyone has heard, and as has been mentioned in the traditions very much too, each prayer should start with salutations. This prayer has started with salutations too, like many other prayers, which have reached us. In the prayers that do not start with salutations, naturally we should send these salutations ourselves.
There are many reasons for this. I will only say one sentence about this and pass on it. It is as if when a person doesnât have the Household of the Prophetâs guardianship, their guardianship is not in his heart, and he doesnât remember these personages with honor, the Almighty God doesnât hear him, wonât answer his prayer and doesnât take this person into account. For whoever enters the Judgment Day, his/her ID is following Godâs Guardians. In this case too, whoever stands in Godâs presence should show his/her ID. This salutation is our identity card. If a person shows this identity card with love and devotion, says, âGod, see Iâm devoted to the Prophet and his Household,â hasnât just said the salutations negligently, and has repeated this salutation with fondness, the way will open for him to pray.
In the first phrase, the Commander of the Faithful, Ali (âa), uses three surprising words. This prayer starts without any introduction. âHear my prayer when I call You. Hear my voice when I call You. Pay attention to me when I whisper to You.â One of the wonders of this prayer is that it starts without any introduction. This prayer is the words of a person who canât tolerate anymore! Itâs as if he has come a far distance and only wants to moan. He knows that God is waiting to hear his words, but he wants to shout at times, whisper at times and pray at times. âHear my voice when I call you.â âNidaâ means calling with a loud voice. âPay attention to me when I whisper to You.â âNajwaâ means talking in a very low voice. And âDuâaâ is used for any kind of calling. Three consecutive words.
It is as if the Commander of the Faithful wants to cry out, âGod, I want to talk to You!â Heâs showing his insistence to whisper to God, cry out to Him and supplicate Him. Heâs not saying others things. He wants, calls and invites God. The next sentence shows this. âI have escaped to You and am standing between Your hands.â âI have escaped to Youâ means I have escaped and come to You. It gives the same feeling that those three words had. âHear my prayer. Hear my voice. Pay attention to me when I whisper to You.â Itâs as if a person has come running. âI am now standing between Your hands.â âBetween Your handsâ is a more beautiful and pleasing concept than standing in front of God. Itâs as if a little one has taken refuge with a great one and is in his power. This is much more beautiful. Those who are the smaller one before a greater one, and have felt the support of a kind, greater one, can understand this. âI am poor before You and I beseech You.â The Commander of the Faithful (âa) is only beseeching in this supplication. He is expressing this with different phrases.
He is beseeching in all of his words. These words are not meaningless words for the Commander of the Faithful. These words arise from the depth of his feelings. He wants to cry intensely with these words. We study, review and even think about these words. But, these words have become internalized for the Commander of the Faithful. The Imam is not reading these words from a prayer book. These words are the interpretation of the Imamâs moans.
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Kids Cartoon - PINGU - Pingu the Baker - All Languages
Pingu walks past a shop with a large cake on display, sees it is a bakery and decides to have a look. He looks in the keyhole in surprise, and sees the baker mixing something in a bowl. There\\\'s...
Pingu walks past a shop with a large cake on display, sees it is a bakery and decides to have a look. He looks in the keyhole in surprise, and sees the baker mixing something in a bowl. There\\\'s a good smell in the shop. The baker goes to the oven, slides out some bread he\\\'s baking, and then returns it to cook some more. He sees Pingu and greets him. A table full of delicious looking cakes and other similar goodies then amazes Pingu. The baker shows Pingu how to make the baking mixture; while he\\\'s getting the yeast to put in Pingu can\\\'t resist sneaking a taste. The baker shows Pingu what to do with the yeast, and then takes the bread he\\\'s baked out of the oven. He presents Pingu with a baker\\\'s hat. Pingu is very excited, thanks the baker and rushes off home to do some baking himself. He gets all the ingredients out, and finds a bowl to mix them in. Pinga comes out of the bedroom, comes over and asks Pingu what he\\\'s doing. Pingu explains, settles down to do the mixing and then realises he needs a whisk to stir the mixture with. He asks Pinga to get it for him, which she does. Pingu starts to mix in the ingredients, but can\\\'t get much out of the first packet and throws it away in disgust. The packet hits the wall and the contents splatter. Pingu compensates by putting all the contents of the other packets he\\\'s got into the mixture, and stirs vigorously, spilling quite a lot of the mixture in the process. He then goes to add the yeast, can\\\'t remember how much, and ends up adding nearly all of it. The mixture gets another good stir, and he tries it. It\\\'s rather good! Pinga wants a taste as well, so he lets her have a lick off the whisk. Pingu puts the whisk in the mixture. It moves around, preventing Pingu from grabbing it, and then disappears under the surface. Pingu is annoyed and shouts at the bowl; the whisk shoots out and Pingu catches it. Pingu gets a pan, tips in the mixture, and puts the pan in the oven. He then notices the mess he\\\'s made and, with Pinga\\\'s help, clears up. They\\\'re then both a bit alarmed when the stove starts rattling, and the stove door bulges out, and take refuge in the toy box. Mother and Father arrive home on the motorised sled, and are puzzled by what the stove is doing when they walk in. Suddenly the stove door bangs open and the baked bread is thrown out. They all go over to inspect it, and rather enjoy the aroma being given off.
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Pingu walks past a shop with a large cake on display, sees it is a bakery and decides to have a look. He looks in the keyhole in surprise, and sees the baker mixing something in a bowl. There\\\'s a good smell in the shop. The baker goes to the oven, slides out some bread he\\\'s baking, and then returns it to cook some more. He sees Pingu and greets him. A table full of delicious looking cakes and other similar goodies then amazes Pingu. The baker shows Pingu how to make the baking mixture; while he\\\'s getting the yeast to put in Pingu can\\\'t resist sneaking a taste. The baker shows Pingu what to do with the yeast, and then takes the bread he\\\'s baked out of the oven. He presents Pingu with a baker\\\'s hat. Pingu is very excited, thanks the baker and rushes off home to do some baking himself. He gets all the ingredients out, and finds a bowl to mix them in. Pinga comes out of the bedroom, comes over and asks Pingu what he\\\'s doing. Pingu explains, settles down to do the mixing and then realises he needs a whisk to stir the mixture with. He asks Pinga to get it for him, which she does. Pingu starts to mix in the ingredients, but can\\\'t get much out of the first packet and throws it away in disgust. The packet hits the wall and the contents splatter. Pingu compensates by putting all the contents of the other packets he\\\'s got into the mixture, and stirs vigorously, spilling quite a lot of the mixture in the process. He then goes to add the yeast, can\\\'t remember how much, and ends up adding nearly all of it. The mixture gets another good stir, and he tries it. It\\\'s rather good! Pinga wants a taste as well, so he lets her have a lick off the whisk. Pingu puts the whisk in the mixture. It moves around, preventing Pingu from grabbing it, and then disappears under the surface. Pingu is annoyed and shouts at the bowl; the whisk shoots out and Pingu catches it. Pingu gets a pan, tips in the mixture, and puts the pan in the oven. He then notices the mess he\\\'s made and, with Pinga\\\'s help, clears up. They\\\'re then both a bit alarmed when the stove starts rattling, and the stove door bulges out, and take refuge in the toy box. Mother and Father arrive home on the motorised sled, and are puzzled by what the stove is doing when they walk in. Suddenly the stove door bangs open and the baked bread is thrown out. They all go over to inspect it, and rather enjoy the aroma being given off.
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[01] [Drama] The Chef - English dubbed
A happily married couple runs one of the most successful restaurants in Tehran. He\\\'s the head chef and she\\\'s the manager. But when she goes on television and starts singing her own praises...
A happily married couple runs one of the most successful restaurants in Tehran. He\\\'s the head chef and she\\\'s the manager. But when she goes on television and starts singing her own praises without also acknowledging her husband\\\'s efforts, he takes offence and leaves the restaurant. What starts out as a small argument keeps escalating until it threatens to tear their family apart.,
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A happily married couple runs one of the most successful restaurants in Tehran. He\\\'s the head chef and she\\\'s the manager. But when she goes on television and starts singing her own praises without also acknowledging her husband\\\'s efforts, he takes offence and leaves the restaurant. What starts out as a small argument keeps escalating until it threatens to tear their family apart.,
[02] [Drama] The Chef - English dubbed
A happily married couple runs one of the most successful restaurants in Tehran. He is the head chef and she\\\'s the manager. But when she goes on television and starts singing her own praises...
A happily married couple runs one of the most successful restaurants in Tehran. He is the head chef and she\\\'s the manager. But when she goes on television and starts singing her own praises without also acknowledging her husband efforts, he takes offence and leaves the restaurant. What starts out as a small argument keeps escalating until it threatens to tear their family apart.
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A happily married couple runs one of the most successful restaurants in Tehran. He is the head chef and she\\\'s the manager. But when she goes on television and starts singing her own praises without also acknowledging her husband efforts, he takes offence and leaves the restaurant. What starts out as a small argument keeps escalating until it threatens to tear their family apart.
[03] [Drama] The Chef - English dubbed
A happily married couple runs one of the most successful restaurants in Tehran. He is the head chef and she\\\'s the manager. But when she goes on television and starts singing her own praises...
A happily married couple runs one of the most successful restaurants in Tehran. He is the head chef and she\\\'s the manager. But when she goes on television and starts singing her own praises without also acknowledging her husband efforts, he takes offence and leaves the restaurant. What starts out as a small argument keeps escalating until it threatens to tear their family apart.
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A happily married couple runs one of the most successful restaurants in Tehran. He is the head chef and she\\\'s the manager. But when she goes on television and starts singing her own praises without also acknowledging her husband efforts, he takes offence and leaves the restaurant. What starts out as a small argument keeps escalating until it threatens to tear their family apart.