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The adverse effects of constant parental censure Follow us: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/Panahianen/ ... Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/PanahianEN/... Twitter: https://twitter.com/PanahianEN Telegram: https://telegram.me/Panahianen/ ============================== Some parents are constantly questioning their children who are students. Whenever he or she comes home from school or the father enters the house, the parents ask about the child’s studies and immediately tell him/her to study. They immediately blame him/her, “Why didn’t you study? Why aren’t you studying now? Why are you playing now?” They immediately ask about the children’s grades and blame them if their grades are low. They immediately compare them with others. If parents do these things, it’s because of their compassion. But in doing this, they make their children hate studying. Plus, the children will start hating themselves too. If immediately after returning home from school every day, or immediately after the father comes home every day, a child is questioned, preached to and punished, this isn’t useful. Why do you do this? It will get worse. A child will become fed up. Why? Because some ideas will become formed in his mind. [He’ll think,] “Father means punishment if you don’t study.” Having this idea about his father is not good, and the child will become distanced from him. And yet, the reason behind these behaviors is that the parents are worried about their children and love them. They don’t care about other people’s studies and don’t direct others like this. They don’t care if others become wretched or become prosperous. The parents are worried about you, their child. This is the reason for their behavior, but this reason isn’t seen. What is seen? The bitterness of ordering, preaching, blaming, and checking up on them. Dear parents, even when your child returns home after an exam, exams that are held occasionally, don’t ask them about it immediately. Say, “How was the weather? Did you play after your test?” Wait one or two hours, then ask, “By the way, how was your test?” so that they won’t feel stressed. Why am I saying this? Your child shouldn’t think you are just judging, checking, blaming and punishing him. So when parents want to train their child, they must be careful of the bitter feelings that may be created. Training needs an introduction, should be occasional and must be done using different ways so as not to create negative feelings. If parents are constantly preaching, checking, blaming and asking about the child’s studies, he will start hating his parents and also hate his studies. He will also think negatively about the home, and the home environment will be irritating for him.

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This one goes out to all the amazing Dads out there! Hey; It’s not a competition - both mums and dads out there have their own unique place and status in Islam. Since It’s Imam Ali (A)’s birthday, we’re celebrating with this unique Father’s Day Special exploring the rights of parents and diving a little bit deeper into the status of parents in Islam. There are verses and ahadith which would make a believer shudder at the mere thought of disrespecting ones own parents… But, how should we treat parents if they’re EVIL? Under what circumstances is it obligatory to DISOBEY the parents? How should one argue with ones parents? DISCLAIMER: This video does not license you to fight with your parents! … unless certain circumstances call for it. #ProphetMuhammad #ImamAli #FathersDay #IslamicTeachings #Islam #Quran #Hadith #HolyQuran #Fathers #Dads #Dad #DaddyDaughter #DaddysGurl #DadJokes #Dadlife #FatherAndSon #FatherDaughter #Fatherhood #Fathers4Justice #Mums #Mum #Mums #Mother #MummyDiaries #MummyLife #Mummy #MothersDay #MothersDayGift #Sons #Daughters #Son #Daughter #HolyProphet #ProphetOfIslam #MessengerOfGod #Shia #ShiaIslam #Shiaism #Sunni #SchoolOfThought #StarWars #SkyWalker #FamilyGuy #Simpsons #SouthPark #BadDads #BadDad #SaturdayMorning #SaturdayThoughts #SaturdayMotivation #ImamMahdi #IslamicCulture #IslamicCivilization

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In this session Agha Hassan Mujtaba Rizvi describes how to communite with parents, A youth must always keep in mind that they are your parents and that you have to respect them. If you made a mistake, recognize it, admit it, and apologize. If they did something wrong to you point it out to them without getting loud or disrespect them in any way and explain to them the things which they did wrong and how it made you feel. Listen to what they have to say because parents are wiser at things and are always trying to protect us even though it might hurt you. Put yourself in their shoes and when talking to them don\'t say anything which might be held against you. Don\'t let your anger put down your character. communicate with your parents, don\'t let the day end without getting to an agreement and make sure that the agreement enhances yourself, as well as your parents. Keep your promise, let it all go ,tell your parents how much you love them. communication is the key to a better relationship.

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Shame on the kids who were raised by these poor and oppressed parents. Today these parents are a burden on them? Shame on these children. Shame on everything they do in their lives. It is an aftermath of Western influence?