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What do some parents do that repels their children | Agha Ali Reza Panahiyan | 2022 | Farsi Sub English
The adverse effects of constant parental censure
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Some parents are constantly questioning their children who are students. Whenever he or she comes home from school or the father enters the house, the parents ask about the child’s studies and immediately tell him/her to study. They immediately blame him/her, “Why didn’t you study? Why aren’t you studying now? Why are you playing now?” They immediately ask about the children’s grades and blame them if their grades are low. They immediately compare them with others.
If parents do these things, it’s because of their compassion. But in doing this, they make their children hate studying. Plus, the children will start hating themselves too.
If immediately after returning home from school every day, or immediately after the father comes home every day, a child is questioned, preached to and punished, this isn’t useful. Why do you do this? It will get worse. A child will become fed up. Why? Because some ideas will become formed in his mind. [He’ll think,] “Father means punishment if you don’t study.” Having this idea about his father is not good, and the child will become distanced from him.
And yet, the reason behind these behaviors is that the parents are worried about their children and love them. They don’t care about other people’s studies and don’t direct others like this. They don’t care if others become wretched or become prosperous. The parents are worried about you, their child. This is the reason for their behavior, but this reason isn’t seen. What is seen? The bitterness of ordering, preaching, blaming, and checking up on them.
Dear parents, even when your child returns home after an exam, exams that are held occasionally, don’t ask them about it immediately. Say, “How was the weather? Did you play after your test?” Wait one or two hours, then ask, “By the way, how was your test?” so that they won’t feel stressed. Why am I saying this? Your child shouldn’t think you are just judging, checking, blaming and punishing him. So when parents want to train their child, they must be careful of the bitter feelings that may be created.
Training needs an introduction, should be occasional and must be done using different ways so as not to create negative feelings. If parents are constantly preaching, checking, blaming and asking about the child’s studies, he will start hating his parents and also hate his studies. He will also think negatively about the home, and the home environment will be irritating for him.
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Some parents are constantly questioning their children who are students. Whenever he or she comes home from school or the father enters the house, the parents ask about the child’s studies and immediately tell him/her to study. They immediately blame him/her, “Why didn’t you study? Why aren’t you studying now? Why are you playing now?” They immediately ask about the children’s grades and blame them if their grades are low. They immediately compare them with others.
If parents do these things, it’s because of their compassion. But in doing this, they make their children hate studying. Plus, the children will start hating themselves too.
If immediately after returning home from school every day, or immediately after the father comes home every day, a child is questioned, preached to and punished, this isn’t useful. Why do you do this? It will get worse. A child will become fed up. Why? Because some ideas will become formed in his mind. [He’ll think,] “Father means punishment if you don’t study.” Having this idea about his father is not good, and the child will become distanced from him.
And yet, the reason behind these behaviors is that the parents are worried about their children and love them. They don’t care about other people’s studies and don’t direct others like this. They don’t care if others become wretched or become prosperous. The parents are worried about you, their child. This is the reason for their behavior, but this reason isn’t seen. What is seen? The bitterness of ordering, preaching, blaming, and checking up on them.
Dear parents, even when your child returns home after an exam, exams that are held occasionally, don’t ask them about it immediately. Say, “How was the weather? Did you play after your test?” Wait one or two hours, then ask, “By the way, how was your test?” so that they won’t feel stressed. Why am I saying this? Your child shouldn’t think you are just judging, checking, blaming and punishing him. So when parents want to train their child, they must be careful of the bitter feelings that may be created.
Training needs an introduction, should be occasional and must be done using different ways so as not to create negative feelings. If parents are constantly preaching, checking, blaming and asking about the child’s studies, he will start hating his parents and also hate his studies. He will also think negatively about the home, and the home environment will be irritating for him.
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[32] Where To Find the Love of Allah? | Ayatollah Misbah-Yazdi | Farsi Sub English
According to the divinely appointed 6th Infallible Imam, Imam Ja\\\\\\\'far al-Sadiq (A), where can one find the love of Allah?
And what is one of the prerequisites for one to have the...
According to the divinely appointed 6th Infallible Imam, Imam Ja\\\\\\\'far al-Sadiq (A), where can one find the love of Allah?
And what is one of the prerequisites for one to have the love of Allah?
Finally, what effect does the hating the enemies of Allah have on our love for Allah?
The late Ayatollah Misbah-Yazdi (R) provides us with a short, but profound lesson on the basics of loving Allah.
#Akhlaq #Love #Allah #Concepts #Beliefs #Salvation
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According to the divinely appointed 6th Infallible Imam, Imam Ja\\\\\\\'far al-Sadiq (A), where can one find the love of Allah?
And what is one of the prerequisites for one to have the love of Allah?
Finally, what effect does the hating the enemies of Allah have on our love for Allah?
The late Ayatollah Misbah-Yazdi (R) provides us with a short, but profound lesson on the basics of loving Allah.
#Akhlaq #Love #Allah #Concepts #Beliefs #Salvation
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[31] Hating that which Allah Hates | Ayatollah Misbah-Yazdi | Farsi Sub English
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We\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\'ve talked about the love for Allah, and the love for those who Allah loves, but what about hating that which Allah hates?
And what does it mean to hate the sinner?
What kind of a sinner is that must be hated and opposed?
And what are the qualities of the people of sin?
Finally, what is a tradition from his eminence, Prophet Jesus (A) regarding this subject of hating that which Allah hates?
The late Ayatollah Misbah-Yazdi (R) provides us with a short, but profound lesson on the basics of loving Allah.
#Akhlaq #Love #Allah #Concepts #Beliefs #Salvation
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We\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\'ve talked about the love for Allah, and the love for those who Allah loves, but what about hating that which Allah hates?
And what does it mean to hate the sinner?
What kind of a sinner is that must be hated and opposed?
And what are the qualities of the people of sin?
Finally, what is a tradition from his eminence, Prophet Jesus (A) regarding this subject of hating that which Allah hates?
The late Ayatollah Misbah-Yazdi (R) provides us with a short, but profound lesson on the basics of loving Allah.
#Akhlaq #Love #Allah #Concepts #Beliefs #Salvation
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[Clip]The Secret behind the Special Status of Hazrat Abu al-Fazl al-Abbas (\'a) |Agha Alireza Panahian Farsi Sub
The Secret behind the Special Status of Hazrat Abu al-Fazl al-Abbas (\'a)
Everything for Aba Abdullah al-Husayn (‘a) in Karbala was Abbas. Does a person become like this...
The Secret behind the Special Status of Hazrat Abu al-Fazl al-Abbas (\'a)
Everything for Aba Abdullah al-Husayn (‘a) in Karbala was Abbas. Does a person become like this because his hand is cut off? No! Where a person is struck isn’t what makes a difference. A person’s body strength isn’t what makes a difference. What is it that separates Aba al-Fazl al-Abbas from the rest so much? Intention!
“And I will fight with whoever fights with you.” He was thinking about the world. Do you know what Abbas’s intention was that he reached to this height? Saving the entire world! He didn’t want less than this.
He was standing with Imam Husayn (‘a) and he saw 72 helpers, a few tents, and 30,000 enemies. But, he was thinking about the world, about humankind. He was big. It is not unlikely that on the day of Ashura he was thinking about Imam Mahdi’s (‘a.j.) reappearance. He wasn’t caught up with small problems.
Look at a part of Aba al-Fazl al-Abbas’s intention. It is obvious that even if we are martyred we will not reach to this point. It is very difficult for a person to have worked on correcting his intention this much. The only person who asked Imam Husayn (‘a) in this way to enter the battlefield was Aba al-Fazl al-Abbas (‘a). He said, “My Master, I’m tired of these hypocrites. Give me permission to go and take revenge.”
You should always have this intention of destroying the enemies of religion somewhere in your heart. Yah! If I could destroy them. Yah! I wish I could strike them hard, O God! Having this intention against them is very purifying and uplifting. See how much the Imam’s (‘a) enemies are cursed in the Ashura Supplication? Why should we just send our greetings upon the Imam (‘a) with much feeling? “And I will fight with whoever fights with you.” (Ashura Supplication)
Do you know what Abal Fazl al-Abbas’s intention was that he reached this level? Saving the entire world. Hating the enemies. This should be a part of our intention.
You have probably heard that tradition about Imam Javad (‘a). He would pound his fist on the ground and say, “I’ll kill and burn.” He was asked, “What? Who? What are you doing? Where are you now?” He said, “The one who came and burned the door of the house of our mother, Fatimah Zahra (‘a).” This means that our mother was pressed between the door and the wall, and thought, “My sad story will reach my children. The hatred of my enemies will enter their hearts, and they will grow.” What an expense was made for your luminous hearts between the door and the wall. Whoever comes to the Bani Hashim Alley and sees the burned door, won’t leave this alley anymore.
A tradition says, “If a person doesn’t wish to kill the enemies (of Islam) with his sword someday, and he dies, he has died with a kind of hypocrisy.” “If a person is not in the battlefield, or he doesn’t read the tradition about holy war for himself, he will leave this world with a kind of hypocrisy.” (Sahih Muslim, vol. 3, p. 1,517)
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The Secret behind the Special Status of Hazrat Abu al-Fazl al-Abbas (\'a)
Everything for Aba Abdullah al-Husayn (‘a) in Karbala was Abbas. Does a person become like this because his hand is cut off? No! Where a person is struck isn’t what makes a difference. A person’s body strength isn’t what makes a difference. What is it that separates Aba al-Fazl al-Abbas from the rest so much? Intention!
“And I will fight with whoever fights with you.” He was thinking about the world. Do you know what Abbas’s intention was that he reached to this height? Saving the entire world! He didn’t want less than this.
He was standing with Imam Husayn (‘a) and he saw 72 helpers, a few tents, and 30,000 enemies. But, he was thinking about the world, about humankind. He was big. It is not unlikely that on the day of Ashura he was thinking about Imam Mahdi’s (‘a.j.) reappearance. He wasn’t caught up with small problems.
Look at a part of Aba al-Fazl al-Abbas’s intention. It is obvious that even if we are martyred we will not reach to this point. It is very difficult for a person to have worked on correcting his intention this much. The only person who asked Imam Husayn (‘a) in this way to enter the battlefield was Aba al-Fazl al-Abbas (‘a). He said, “My Master, I’m tired of these hypocrites. Give me permission to go and take revenge.”
You should always have this intention of destroying the enemies of religion somewhere in your heart. Yah! If I could destroy them. Yah! I wish I could strike them hard, O God! Having this intention against them is very purifying and uplifting. See how much the Imam’s (‘a) enemies are cursed in the Ashura Supplication? Why should we just send our greetings upon the Imam (‘a) with much feeling? “And I will fight with whoever fights with you.” (Ashura Supplication)
Do you know what Abal Fazl al-Abbas’s intention was that he reached this level? Saving the entire world. Hating the enemies. This should be a part of our intention.
You have probably heard that tradition about Imam Javad (‘a). He would pound his fist on the ground and say, “I’ll kill and burn.” He was asked, “What? Who? What are you doing? Where are you now?” He said, “The one who came and burned the door of the house of our mother, Fatimah Zahra (‘a).” This means that our mother was pressed between the door and the wall, and thought, “My sad story will reach my children. The hatred of my enemies will enter their hearts, and they will grow.” What an expense was made for your luminous hearts between the door and the wall. Whoever comes to the Bani Hashim Alley and sees the burned door, won’t leave this alley anymore.
A tradition says, “If a person doesn’t wish to kill the enemies (of Islam) with his sword someday, and he dies, he has died with a kind of hypocrisy.” “If a person is not in the battlefield, or he doesn’t read the tradition about holy war for himself, he will leave this world with a kind of hypocrisy.” (Sahih Muslim, vol. 3, p. 1,517)
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Muawiya ibn Abi Sufyan\\\'s hatred for Imam Ali - Seyyid Kamal Haydari [ENG SUBS]
In this segment we attempt to bring to light the true face of Mu\'awiya ibn Abi Sufyan. A man who is praised by so many Muslims. Given the title of \"Ameerul Mo\'mineen\" by certain...
In this segment we attempt to bring to light the true face of Mu\'awiya ibn Abi Sufyan. A man who is praised by so many Muslims. Given the title of \"Ameerul Mo\'mineen\" by certain Muslims.
This segment focusses on his attitude towards Imam Ali (as) from Authentic Narrations only.
We find that there is an overwhelming number of Authentic Narrations about his hatred towards Imam Ali (as). His hatred led him to abuse Imam Ali (as) and order others to do so too, including ordering fellow companions.
Mu\\\'awiya\\\'s hatred for Imam Ali (as) has led to Ibn Katheer and Imam Dhahabi amongst others acknowledging that he is a Nasibi. His aiders were Nasibis and so were his companions Nawasibs.
Hating Imam Ali (as) is a sign of Hypocrisy as stated by the Beloved Prophet (saw). In fact, hating Imam Ali (as) is hating the Beloved Prophet (saw) himself and Allah (swt).
It is the same Mu\\\'awiya who fought Imam Ali (as) in the battle of Siffeen! The battle in which he caused the death of plenty Muslims including noble companions such as Ammar ibn Yasser.
Yet, despite his hatred for Imam Ali (as), his war on Imam Ali (as), his killing of Muslims and companions, his abandoning of Sunna, he is still praised by certain Muslims.
The same scholars who admit he is a Nasibi praise him.
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In this segment we attempt to bring to light the true face of Mu\'awiya ibn Abi Sufyan. A man who is praised by so many Muslims. Given the title of \"Ameerul Mo\'mineen\" by certain Muslims.
This segment focusses on his attitude towards Imam Ali (as) from Authentic Narrations only.
We find that there is an overwhelming number of Authentic Narrations about his hatred towards Imam Ali (as). His hatred led him to abuse Imam Ali (as) and order others to do so too, including ordering fellow companions.
Mu\\\'awiya\\\'s hatred for Imam Ali (as) has led to Ibn Katheer and Imam Dhahabi amongst others acknowledging that he is a Nasibi. His aiders were Nasibis and so were his companions Nawasibs.
Hating Imam Ali (as) is a sign of Hypocrisy as stated by the Beloved Prophet (saw). In fact, hating Imam Ali (as) is hating the Beloved Prophet (saw) himself and Allah (swt).
It is the same Mu\\\'awiya who fought Imam Ali (as) in the battle of Siffeen! The battle in which he caused the death of plenty Muslims including noble companions such as Ammar ibn Yasser.
Yet, despite his hatred for Imam Ali (as), his war on Imam Ali (as), his killing of Muslims and companions, his abandoning of Sunna, he is still praised by certain Muslims.
The same scholars who admit he is a Nasibi praise him.
Kids Cartoon - PINGU - Pingu Helps To Deliver Mail - All Languages Other
Pingu is helping his dad deliver the mail. His dad lets him wear his postman\'s hat, and they go to the post office to pick up the mail and then deliver it to the town\'s various eccentric...
Pingu is helping his dad deliver the mail. His dad lets him wear his postman\'s hat, and they go to the post office to pick up the mail and then deliver it to the town\'s various eccentric residents; including an old, kid-hating granny penguin, a tall, loud-beaked (bird style for loud-mouthed) penguin, a short, zippy and strange penguin in suspenders (this is Punki, who also slams the door right in Pingu\'s face as he opens it!), Pingu\'s friend Pingo, a sad penguin with bad news, a woman with three children, and others, before returning home again to his mum\'s arms.
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Pingu is helping his dad deliver the mail. His dad lets him wear his postman\'s hat, and they go to the post office to pick up the mail and then deliver it to the town\'s various eccentric residents; including an old, kid-hating granny penguin, a tall, loud-beaked (bird style for loud-mouthed) penguin, a short, zippy and strange penguin in suspenders (this is Punki, who also slams the door right in Pingu\'s face as he opens it!), Pingu\'s friend Pingo, a sad penguin with bad news, a woman with three children, and others, before returning home again to his mum\'s arms.
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